Things Only Americans Find Attractive, according to a survey

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A striking appearance is only part of the picture. Surveys on attraction and relationships reveal preferences ranging from accents and tattoos to honesty and friendship. The findings also leave plenty of room for individual taste.

In YouGov’s 2021 study, 68% of respondents said physical beauty is subjective, not objective. That is a useful starting point before treating any preference as a rule.

For anyone dating, talking with friends about relationships, or building a life with a partner, these findings offer conversation starters. Some measure physical attraction; others examine partner preferences or qualities people consider important to a successful relationship. They don’t provide a single ranking, and none proves these preferences belong only to Americans.

Tattoos

YouGov’s April 2025 report found that 61% of Americans said tattoos could be attractive on a man, while 62% said they could be attractive on a woman.

“Could” is doing important work here. The results do not mean everyone wants a tattooed partner or admires every design. They support a more measured point: tattoos and attractiveness were compatible ideas for substantial shares of respondents.

Southern coastal accents

In a 2018 YouGov report, 18% selected Southern coastal accents as the most attractive American regional accent. Texas accents received 12%.

Those were separate categories, so combining them into one general Southern result would change the finding. The leading figure was also far short of a majority. This makes an entertaining discussion topic without establishing a national favorite that everyone shares.

British accents

Among foreign accents, British accents received the largest share in the same report, with 20% choosing them as the most attractive.

French accents followed at 13%, Australian accents at 12%, and Irish accents at 10%. Present these as responses to a dated survey rather than a permanent order of appeal. The spread of answers also gives readers several preferences to compare with their own.

A partner taller than themselves

In YouGov’s 2021 study, 63% of female respondents preferred a romantic partner taller than themselves. Another 24% reported no height preference.

The comparison was relative to the respondent’s own height. It did not establish a universal minimum measurement. The study represented U.S. respondents aged 16 and older, another detail to retain when describing who answered.

Open communication

Moving from first impressions to relationship priorities, YouGov’s 2025 survey found that 87% considered open communication very important to a successful romantic relationship.

This didn’t measure instant chemistry. It belongs in the broader discussion of what people value in a partnership. Use it to start a conversation about how you want to discuss everyday plans, disagreements, and shared decisions.

A well-kept beard

A 2014 YouGov poll found that 47% of Americans considered men with well-kept beards attractive. Among women, the figure was 62%.

This is historical evidence, so it should not be presented as a newly discovered preference. The description also specified a well-kept beard. If you are discussing the finding with a partner, ask about their preference rather than treating an old poll as styling instructions.

A personality that feels compatible

In YouGov’s 2017 international study, personality ranked first among the listed partner attributes for 41% of American men and 38% of American women.

That finding gives personality a clear place in an article about appeal. However, it does not identify one winning personality type. Instead of treating outgoing, quiet, adventurous, or reserved as the ideal, consider what kind of person you enjoy spending time with.

A compatible sense of humor

In the same study, a sense of humor they liked ranked second for 27% of American women, behind personality.

The wording matters: this was about humor the respondent appreciated. It was not a contest to find the person who told the most jokes. When thinking about compatibility, ask whether you enjoy each other’s humor rather than whether someone performs well for a room.

Intelligence

Intelligence occupied the middle of Americans’ partner-priority rankings in YouGov’s 2017 study.

Keep the finding within those boundaries. It doesn’t show that respondents wanted a particular qualification, profession, or academic background. For a personal conversation, consider what intelligence means to you rather than assuming that everyone uses the same definition.

Honesty

92% of respondents rated honesty as very important to relationship success in that survey.

That is a finding about relationship expectations, not proof that honesty creates attraction in every situation. For readers sharing a home or considering a future together, it raises a direct question: what does honesty look like in practice?

Respect

Respect received a “very important” rating from 91% in YouGov’s 2025 relationship survey.

Rather than leaving the word undefined, ask your partner what respectful treatment means to them. You might discuss how you want to handle differences or make decisions together. Those are suggested conversations, not behaviors the survey separately tested

Friendship within the relationship

83% of respondents considered friendship very important to relationship success.

It is a fitting place to finish because it broadens the discussion beyond a preferred look or voice. Ask what you enjoy doing together and what you would like to share more often. The survey identifies friendship as a priority; your own conversation can give that priority a personal meaning.

Use these findings to compare preferences with curiosity, while leaving the final answer to the person across from you.