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Shania Twain has built a career on turning heartbreak into some of the most quotable lyrics in music history, so it makes sense that when she finally found lasting love again, she would be just as candid about how it happened.
In a cover story with People, the country-pop icon opened up about the collapse of her first marriage, the unlikely way she found her current husband, Frédéric Thiébaud, and why she considers their bond one of the more unusual, hard-won love stories in her life.
Rather than glossing over the pain that started it all, Twain leaned into it, describing exactly how devastation eventually turned into something she now calls a genuinely rare kind of partnership.
The story behind their relationship has become almost as well known as Twain’s music at this point, largely because she has never tried to hide the details.
Her 14-year marriage to producer Robert “Mutt” Lange ended in 2008, after she learned he had been having an affair with her close friend, Marie-Anne Thiébaud.
Frédéric was married to Marie-Anne at the time, which meant both he and Twain were left picking up the pieces of their respective marriages simultaneously. “It was a very low period in my life,” Twain told People, reflecting on just how disorienting that stretch of time actually was for her.
Two People Grieving the Same Betrayal Found Something Unexpected in Each Other
What makes Twain and Thiébaud’s relationship stand out, even by celebrity standards, is how directly their romance grew out of shared devastation rather than in spite of it.
As both marriages fell apart around the same time, Twain and Thiébaud found themselves leaning on one another simply because no one else fully understood what the other was going through.
That shared experience, she says, became the unlikely foundation for something much deeper than either of them expected.
“That is a really strong bond that builds over time, that is rare, that you don’t have in every relationship if you don’t have those deep scars in common,” Twain explained. “We were a big part of each other’s healing.”
That description matters, because Twain has been clear that this was not a rebound relationship built on convenience. She has said she went into that period of her life fully convinced she would never remarry, let alone fall in love again.
“When I got divorced I said, ‘I’m never getting married again.’ I was definitely one of those people that could have written a million songs about, ‘I’m never going to fall in love again,’” she said, acknowledging just how unlikely it felt at the time that she would end up in another committed relationship at all.
Her turnaround, in her own words, came down to one simple explanation. “But Fred was such an undeniable love.”
Twain and Thiébaud finalized their own paths forward not long after the affair came to light, with Twain’s divorce becoming official in 2010.
The two married on New Year’s Day 2011, a decision Twain has described as one she genuinely was not sure she would ever make again after everything she had been through.
Their wedding marked the start of a new chapter that, more than a decade later, Twain continues to describe with a level of gratitude that comes through clearly whenever she discusses it publicly.
Twain Has Made Peace With the Past, Resentment Included
Perhaps the most striking part of Twain’s reflections is how she talks about Lange himself all these years later. Rather than holding onto anger, she has described arriving at something closer to forgiveness, crediting both time and perspective for helping her get there.
“I found peace a long time ago, and maybe peace is forgiveness, you know?” she said. “I’m able to have more appreciation for him again, not for what happened in our marriage but for all that he contributed to such a great part of my career and my life. We have a beautiful child from it. The resentment is gone.”
That willingness to hold space for gratitude and hurt at the same time has come up in other interviews as well, where Twain has continued to reflect on what it took to actually let go of what happened.
Speaking about the broader idea of forgiveness in a separate conversation, she described it as something distinct from simply forgetting. “Forgiveness is in the family of letting go,” she said. “But forgiveness, more specifically for me anyway, is not about forgetting necessarily. It’s about understanding the other person, and that might mean that they’re wrong.”
That distinction, between excusing what happened and simply choosing not to carry it forward, seems central to how she has approached both her past marriage and her current one.
Twain has also spoken about how her relationship with Thiébaud has continued to evolve as their lives have changed around them.
With her son Eja and Thiébaud’s daughter Johanna both grown, Twain has described the couple entering what she calls “a sort of second honeymoon phase” now that they are empty nesters.
“We’re bonded now in a different way without the kids,” she said, describing a relationship that has continued shifting and deepening well past its dramatic origin story.
A Love Story Twain Never Expected, but One She Doesn’t Take for Granted
What ties all of Twain’s reflections together is a consistent refusal to sand down the messier parts of the story in favor of a cleaner narrative.
She has never pretended the beginning of her relationship with Thiébaud was anything other than complicated, born out of two painful divorces that were tangled up with each other in an unusually direct way.
At the same time, she has been equally consistent in describing what came out of that mess as something genuinely rare, built on a level of mutual understanding she has said would have been difficult to find any other way.
That honesty extends to how she talks about her own emotional journey during that period, including how much work it took simply to function again after her first marriage ended.
She has described working through the fear of performing without Lange, who had produced several of her biggest albums, as well as rebuilding her sense of independence as an artist after years of relying on him as a creative partner.
Rebuilding that identity alongside rebuilding her personal life clearly was not a simple or quick process, even if the outcome, from the outside, looks like a tidy happy ending.
Fifteen years into her marriage with Thiébaud, Twain’s public reflections continue to circle back to the same core idea. What started as two people trying to survive the same betrayal turned into a partnership she describes as one of the most stabilizing forces in her life.
She has never framed it as a fairy tale so much as something earned through years of difficult, honest work, which may be exactly why her account of it continues to resonate with people who hear it.
For an artist who built her career writing songs about love, heartbreak, and everything in between, it makes sense that the truest version of her own love story would be the most complicated one to tell.
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