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Gen Z Isn’t Quitting Dating Apps, but Offline Dating Is Gaining Ground 

Diana Mibei
By Diana Mibei 5 min read

The post Gen Z Isn’t Quitting Dating Apps, but Offline Dating Is Gaining Ground first appeared on Crafting Your Home.

 

Dating apps are not disappearing from Gen Z’s romantic lives, but the endless cycle of swiping, messaging, and searching for a connection appears to be wearing on many young users. 

Several surveys and company indicators point to a more nuanced shift. Instead of abandoning online dating completely, many young adults appear open to meeting potential partners through friends, activities, social gatherings, and other face-to-face settings. The emerging picture is less about the death of dating apps and more about a move toward hybrid and offline-first dating. 

Dating-app fatigue is hard to ignore 

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One of the clearest signals comes from a Forbes Health-commissioned OnePoll survey of 1,000 U.S. adults who used a dating app in the past year. Among surveyed Gen Z dating-app users, 79% said they experienced emotional, mental, or physical exhaustion from using the apps at least sometimes. 

The survey was conducted from March 27 through April 1, 2024, and reported a margin of error of plus or minus 3.1 percentage points. The finding helps explain app fatigue, but it should not be interpreted as evidence that 79% of all Gen Z adults have stopped using dating apps. 

The same survey found that 40% of respondents identified difficulty finding a good connection as a reason for their exhaustion. That suggests the frustration isn’t necessarily with the technology itself. Repeatedly using an app without finding the connection someone wants may be part of what makes the process feel draining. 

Related: Terrifying Dating App Trend: Why Thousands of Americans Are Now Running Private Background Checks Before First Dates

Meeting someone offline still has strong appeal 

Another survey adds to the evidence that younger adults are comfortable forming relationships away from dating platforms. 

Hims reported that 23% of surveyed adults aged 18 to 29 met their current partner through dating apps, social media, or an online community. That means 77% in the survey met their partner in person. Offline settings included bars, weddings, workplaces, and mutual friends. 

The finding does not prove that 77% of Gen Z prefers meeting people offline. It describes how surveyed young adults with partners said those relationships began. Still, it suggests that dating apps are far from the only route young people use to form relationships. 

A separate DatingAdvice.com survey of 502 U.S. daters ages 18 to 27 found that more than 90% selected at least one offline setting as a preferred way to meet a potential partner. Options included social gatherings, bookstores, local clubs, and classes. 

Importantly, respondents were allowed to choose more than one method. About 40.65% also selected an online setting, reinforcing the idea that young daters may see online and offline options as complementary rather than competing choices. 

In-person dating events are getting more attention 

Eventbrite’s own platform data provides another piece of the picture. 

The company reported that U.S. public in-person events explicitly using “meet-cute” language increased 117% from January through June 2026 compared with the same period in 2025. Eventbrite counted completed public events that fit its connection-oriented language and activity criteria. 

That does not mean dating events across the entire United States increased by 117%. The figure applies specifically to qualifying events listed on Eventbrite. Still, the increase shows that more organizers on the platform are promoting events built around face-to-face connection.  

Dating apps are adjusting, too 

The changing preferences do not mean dating companies are simply watching younger users move elsewhere. 

USA Today reported that Tinder launched an events tab in select markets in March. Tinder said 66% of its Gen Z users in New York City had engaged with the feature. 

The move highlights how the boundary between online dating and offline dating can blur. An app can still serve as the starting point while helping users discover opportunities to meet people in person. 

At the same time, major dating companies face business pressure. Bumble’s audited 2025 filing reported $965.7 million in total revenue, down from $1.072 billion in 2024. Average Bumble App paying users fell from about 2.8 million to roughly 2.4 million, while total average paying users declined from 4.15 million to about 3.67 million. 

Those numbers should not be blamed solely on Gen Z dating fatigue. The filing does not establish that young people choosing offline dating caused the decline. 

Related: 10 Harsh Ways Dating Apps Can Crush Men’s Ego Without Them Realizing It

What this could mean locally 

For readers wondering whether the same shift is happening closer to home, the national data offers context but not a complete local answer. 

Whether local bookstores, clubs, classes, community organizations, or social venues are seeing more singles events and greater attendance remains. 

Gen Z has not collectively walked away from dating apps. Many young daters still use online tools while also showing strong interest in meeting people through real-world activities and social connections. 

The future of dating may therefore look less like choosing between an app and an in-person introduction and more like using both, depending on where a promising connection begins. 

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